What I learned While Hiking…
This summer, my family was blessed with the opportunity to take a trip to a National Park and spent time hiking and enjoying nature. The views were spectacular and great family memories were shared. Due to the state of travel right now, there were many other people who had the same idea.
After a few days of hiking, I noticed something. When people are hiking, they tend to bring their most friendly and cooperative selves to the task. Most days, when we passed strangers on the trail, they spoke and said “hello” or “good morning” or such. In addition, if anyone (including myself) was struggling to manage an area due to conditions, other people jumped in to try and help. For example, if someone slipped on the rocks, others leaned towards them to attempt to catch their fall. When we tried to decide which trail was the correct one to see the big waterfalls, there was always someone coming back the other way that would volunteer to help with directions.
These people did not know each other. They did not know me or my family. Total strangers. However, their attitudes towards one another were upbeat and helpful. They did not know how we feel about issues; who we voted for; if we believe in climate change or support same sex marriage; if we are against gun control. They just saw a group of fellow hikers and wanted to help. No judgements were made about who we were before the help was offered.
This concept made me think about how I relate to others in many areas of my life. Am I applying this attitude to the way I relate to others in my “real” life? What about my online connections? Am I able to open myself to helping others in everyday situations without judging their positions? The truth is, not always.
However, after coming home to my life back in North Carolina, I am inspired to set this as a goal. Like all things “real life”, I am aware that this goal is a lofty one. I believe the first step towards this goal is understanding the destination or seeing where I’m trying to go. Following the example of these hikers gives me a clearer picture and sets the tone for what I want my relationships to include.
It will surely be more difficult to transition into this mode without the grandeur of the National Parks as a backdrop. However, I hold on to the essence of what it felt like to connect with others while hiking. If you see me out on the trail, feel free to kindly give me directions to my next big lookout point.